说谎是常见的孩子“问题”行为之一,由于这种行为很容易让人和不诚实的道德品质联系起来,因此,很多家长听到孩子说谎就禁不住责怪孩子,甚至给其扣上“不诚实”的帽子,其实,这样的处理方式对孩子来说是有失公平的。因为,对于学前期的孩子来说,其谎言是不能从道德角度进行评判的,用心理学家皮亚杰的提法来讲,这个时期的孩子,其道德发展还没有达到“自律”水平,是谈不上道德问题的。 Lying is one of the common children “problems ” behavior, because this behavior is easy to make people and dishonest moral qualities, so many parents hear the child lying could not help but blame the child, or even to buckle “Dishonest” hat, in fact, this approach is unfair to children. Because, for pre-school children, its lies can not be judged from the moral point of view, with the psychologists Piaget’s formulation, the children of this period, the moral development has not yet reached “self-discipline” Level, there is no moral question.