说出口的话就如泼出去的水,想收也收不回,所以说话前要想清楚,有时宁愿默不作声,总好过胡言乱语出口伤人。冲口而出未经过滤收到读者的电邮,他说因不擅辞令,故经常得罪人,普通一句话也给误解以为是在“窒”人,有时即使想补救或想向人请教都被认为是在诋毁揶揄,结果愈描愈黑,他本身脾气不好,也就按捺不住与人冲突。他说“放下”“自在”这些道理他听得明白,但要做到确实好难。说话是人一种最频繁的活动,语言习惯自小养成,一时之间要改变的确十分困难。俗语有 Say it as if the words of the spilled water, want to close also do not receive, so to speak clearly before, and sometimes would rather silence, better than nonsense export wounding. Blurted out without filtering the reader’s e-mail, he said that due to poor rhetoric, it is often offended, the general sentence also gave a misunderstanding that is in the “stifle” people sometimes even want to remedy or want to consult people Are considered slander, the more the more dark the results, his own bad temper, it tempted to conflict with others. He said “let go ” “free ” he heard these truths, but to do really hard. Talking is one of the most frequent activities of people, and it is indeed very difficult to change language habits at an early age. As the saying goes