人们常说“隔代亲”。当了10多年外婆感受颇深。我觉得,祖辈对孙辈的亲,不光体现在满足他们健康成长的物质需求,更要过问思想品德,从小抓紧培养良好行为习惯。这才算疼在点上,不帮倒忙,真正助女儿一臂之力。我两个女儿都已年过45,老知青。她俩回城后再上大学,晚婚,30多岁才当妈妈。我提醒她们.不能中年得子而娇惯。可我这个外婆又该怎么当才好呢?外孙阳阳和外孙女薇薇今年13岁,刚上初一。他俩学习认真,成绩优秀,小学期间不断被评为三好生、双百生,外孙和外孙女自我服务能力也较强,刚上小学,日常生活 People often say “from generation to generation.” When the grandmother felt more than 10 years deep. I think that pro grandparents to their grandchildren are not only reflected in their material needs to meet their healthy growth but also have to talk about their ideological and moral qualities and cultivate good habits at an early age. This is painful at the point, do not help, really help daughter hand. I have two daughters over 45 years old, educated youth. When they go back to the city, they go to college and marry later than 30s. I remind them. But my grandmother and how should we be good? Grandchildren and granddaughters Wei Wei 13-year-old this year, just on the first day. They studied conscientiously and achieved good grades. They were consistently honored as “San Haosheng” during primary school. Their self-service abilities are also strong, such as being born in primary school and daily life