任性是幼儿常见的一种心理反应,具体表现为自我意志不愿受制约,一味要求从心理上、行动上得到满足,而此一满足又刺激着更多、更大的不满足的心理冲动。幼儿之所以不愿受约束,主要是由于幼儿缺乏必要的社会知识,不懂得社会的行为准则和道德规范,对是非和利害观念还分不清。事实上任性的孩子自尊心很强,他们需要的是父母的 Self-willed is a kind of common psychological reaction in young children. The concrete manifestation is that self-will does not want to be restrained, blindly demands to be satisfied psychologically and in action, and this satisfaction stimulates more and more psychological impulses of dissatisfaction. The reason why young children are unwilling to be restrained is mainly because young children lack the necessary social knowledge, do not understand the social code of conduct and moral norms and can not distinguish between their own views on non-tripartism and their interests. In fact, headstrong children have a strong self-esteem and need parents