期望值的冲突家长的期望值使孩子身心疲惫。当家长的心愿超过孩子本身的能力时,就会给孩子造成巨大心理压力。专家认为,每个孩子的智商和学习能力都有差异,社会对人才的评价体系也正趋向多元化。家长对孩子的期望应切合实际。保护溺爱孩子的冲突过度保护与溺爱导致孩子的无能。 Conflict expectations expectations of parents so that children physically and mentally exhausted. When the parents’ wishes exceed the ability of the children themselves, it will cause great psychological pressure on the children. Experts believe that each child’s IQ and learning ability are different, the social evaluation system of talent is also becoming more diversified. Parents’ expectations of their children should be realistic. Protecting children who spoil their children The overprotection and spoiling cause the child’s incompetence.