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儿童最为重要的心理“营养素”是爱。童年时代主要是父母和亲人之爱。“爱”有十分丰富的内涵,如温暖、关怀、宽容、安慰、鼓励、奖赏、赞扬、信任、支持等。一个孩子如果长期得不到或很少得到别人尤其是亲人的爱,长期处于孤单、寂寞、失望的境地,不但不能健康成长,而且还会造成心理变态、人格不健全、人性扭曲等不良现象,严重的还会导致犯罪行为的产生。心理学家通过对儿童发展的观察和研究,得出了这样的结论:在儿童发展的过程中,最为需要的,不是人们普遍认为的充足的食物,而是爱与关怀。
Children’s most important psychological “nutrients” is love. Childhood is mainly the love of parents and loved ones. Love has very rich connotation, such as warmth, care, tolerance, comfort, encouragement, reward, praise, trust, support and so on. If a child can not get long-term or rarely loved by others, especially his or her loved ones, being in a lonely, lonely and disappointed state for a long time will not only fail to grow healthily, but will also lead to such undesirable phenomena as psychological perversions, personality imperfections, distorted human nature, Serious can also lead to criminal behavior. Through the observation and study of children’s development, psychologists reached the conclusion that what is most needed in children’s development is not the abundant food generally accepted but the love and care.