现在的幼儿多数是家庭中的独生子女,深受家庭各成员的宠爱。他们在优越的生活环境里过着“衣来伸手、饭来张口”的安逸生活。从出生那一刻起,他们就是家庭的中心,生活在一个相对独立的环境里。在这样的家庭背景与教育环境下,孩子往往会产生“自我中心意识”。他们往往在家庭这个小圈子里能说会道,而在家庭之外场所却表现为胆小、孤癖、“不合群”。有的孩子表现出霸气、任性、爱发小脾气等性格特征,有的孩子比较自私,不喜欢与同伴共享心爱的玩具,还有的孩子不善言谈、害 Most of today’s children are the only children in the family and are favored by all family members. They live in a superior living environment, “clothing to reach out, rice to mouth open,” a comfortable life. From the moment of birth, they are the center of the family and live in a relatively independent environment. In such a family context and educational environment, children tend to produce “self-centered ”. They tend to be able to talk in this small circle of family, but they appear timid, solitary, and “out of place” outside the home. Some children show domineering, self-willed, love and other characteristics of small temper, some children are more selfish, do not like to share with their beloved toys, as well as children talkative, harm