在婚姻中的人,应该有属于自己的空间,在爱你家人的同时,你也要给自己留一份爱,也许你过多的宠爱和照顾会让对方感到不自由,会有一种想飞出家门的感觉,当你在爱他(她)的同时,请给你们的爱留一份距离。给婚姻一个宽松的空间,给对方一个适度的自由,不要让他的锋芒遇到你的个性而收敛,不要试图去把对方的思想去改变。对自由和独立的追求是每个人原始的动力,不能由谁来剥夺。 In the marriage of people, should have their own space, love your family at the same time, you have to give yourself a love, maybe you too much love and care will make each other feel not free, there will be a want to fly The feeling of a family, when you love him (her) at the same time, please give your love to stay a distance. Give the marriage a relaxed space, give each other a modest freedom, do not let his edge meet your personality and convergence, do not try to change each other’s thoughts. The pursuit of freedom and independence is the original impetus of every individual and can not be deprived of by anyone.