父亲要重视对孩子的管教,学会怎样去惩罚孩子,但不要体罚他们。多数孩子一听到父亲的管教就联想到惩罚。他们认为父亲是迫使他们为做错事而受苦的人。虽然不是每个父亲都如此,但绝大多数的父亲都是只负责“管”的责任,而忽略了“教”的责任。有一些父亲根本不参加儿子的管教工作,把孩子小时候的管教责任完全推给了母亲。对于中国家庭中的父亲而言,如果当父亲把管教儿女的责任全交付给母亲时,母亲与孩子之间的摩擦就会增多,没有父亲帮助,她极难克服这些摩擦。为了孩子,为了妻子,为了 The father should pay attention to the discipline of children, learn how to punish children, but do not corporal punishment. Most children associate punishment as soon as they hear about their father’s discipline. They think their father is the one who forced them to suffer for something wrong. Although not all fathers are true, the overwhelming majority of fathers are solely responsible for “managing” responsibilities while ignoring the responsibility of “teaching.” Some fathers did not participate in the discipline of their sons at all and completely pushed their children’s discipline responsibilities to their mothers. For fathers in Chinese families, the friction between the mother and the child increases when the father hands down the responsibility of discipline to the mother, and she can hardly overcome the friction without her father’s help. For children, for wives, in order