上大二的孩子寒假回来告诉我,她上的那所大学在上个学期,至少有两个以上同学自杀了(须知由于校方对这类消息一向是严加封锁的,因此是不完全统计)。为什么自杀呢?一个男孩子是因为失恋,高中时候的女朋友弃他而去另攀高枝了,受不了,跳楼了。一个女孩子是因为和同寝室的另三个女孩子关系相处得不好,遭到了别人的辱骂,可能还有殴打,更重要的是被孤立、被疏远、被边缘化了,想不开,服毒了。为什么会出现这种情况呢?如果追根寻源,这其实是涉及了一个被公众或社会普遍忽视的问题。我们过去都知道,单亲家庭的孩子 The sophomore’s children came home on a winter vacation and told me that at her university last semester, at least two or more students had committed suicide (note is incomplete due to the school’s strict blockade on such messages) . Why commit suicide? A boy because of romance, high school girlfriend abandoned him and climbed another branch, and can not stand, jumped. A girl because of the relationship with the other three girls in the bedroom get along well, was abused by others, there may be assault, more importantly, be isolated, alienated, marginalized, can not think of, poisoned . Why does this happen? If we look for a source, this actually involves a problem that is generally neglected by the public or the community. We used to know children from single-parent families