这是一个值得庆幸的案例。由于这位母亲有理智,懂得求助于心理咨询,使孩子的情绪问题很快得到控制,从而遏制了孩子心理问题的进一步恶化。由此,我们想到上期本刊的个案。女生佼佼其实比此案中大伟更坚强一些,心理素质更好一些。她不仅从小看够了父母的吵架,而且,在父母离异后,开始的时候她还努力孝敬母亲,帮母亲做家务事,为母亲熬汤,直到母亲很粗暴地辱骂了她,令她彻底失望。佼佼是不幸的,大伟是幸运的。两个同样优秀的孩子同样面对父母的离异,结果却截然不同。其中,一个根本的原因在于离异的父母如何一如既往地让孩子感受到父母的关爱,并帮助孩子正确面对父母的离异。当准备离异的父母自身难以和孩子进行有效的亲子沟通时,要懂得求助心理咨询的力量帮助孩子尽早走出困扰。 This is a fortunate case. As the mother is rational, know how to resort to psychological counseling, so that children’s emotional problems quickly be controlled, thus curbing the child’s psychological problems further deterioration. Thus, we think of the case of the previous issue. Actually, the girls are better than the David in the case and the psychological quality is better. Not only did she grow up with her parents’ quarrels, she also started her efforts to honor her mother, help her mother do housework, and cook her mother until her mother rudely abused her, causing her total disappointment . Outstanding is unfortunate, David is lucky. The same two outstanding children also face the divorce of parents, the result is very different. Among them, a fundamental reason is that divorced parents, as always, let their children feel the care of their parents and help their children correctly face the divorce of their parents. When preparing divorced parents and their children to communicate effectively with their parents, it is important to know how to turn to psychological counseling to help children get out of trouble as early as possible.