感谢贵刊在2003年3月发表了拙作《我“恨”我的父亲》,使我获得了意想不到的欢愉和精神上一次难得的放松。我已逼近古稀之年了,写《我“恨”我父亲》,本来只想回忆一下已去世40多年的父亲,总结一下我的人生,没想到文章发表后,却在我的家族和亲友中引起了强烈的反响。这篇文章出来后,我收到的第一个反应是来自我的老伴,她看到“我和小哥联手‘偷吃作业’”的那一段时,忍俊不禁地大笑,一则觉得我小时候和小老鼠一样,是个调皮捣蛋鬼;二则认为我父亲确实“太自私”了,连吃剩的几条小虾都要吊起来不给自己的孩子吃,这是她无论如何不能接受的。可是老伴读到文章的后面却哭起鼻子来,觉得和自己的公爹虽然在一起 I thank your magazine for publishing my mythology “My Father” in March 2003, which has given me unexpected pleasure and spiritual relaxation. I have been approaching the seventies, writing “I” hate “my father”, had just wanted to recall the father who had died 40 years, sum up my life, I did not expect the article published, but in my family and Relatives and friends caused a strong response. After the article came out, the first reaction I received was from my wife. When she saw the phrase “When I worked with my brother to steal homework,” I could not help but laugh. When I was a kid, I was a naughty rascal like a mouse. I thought my father was “too selfish,” and even the leftover few shrimp had to be lifted off to their own children unacceptable. But his wife read the article behind but cried nose, and his father, although with my father together