放大镜对于孩子在生活、学习、纪律等方面的优点,哪怕是极其细小的,作为家长都应该善于捕捉和搜取,及时而充分地分析,不失时机地用“放大镜”进行适当的“放大”表扬,这样既是对孩子本人的鼓励,又可对孩子进行正确导向,让懂得孩子“莫以善小而不为”的道理。如孩子在车上主动给老人让座,就要及时上升到“尊老爱幼”是我们中华民族的传统美德进行表扬。同时,对于孩子的微小错误特别是原则性的错误,家长决不能姑息迁就、放任纵容, Magnifying glass for children in life, learning, discipline and other advantages, even if it is extremely small, as parents should be good at capturing and searching, timely and fully analyzed, seize the opportunity to “magnifying glass” appropriate “magnification” recognition, This is both a encouragement to the children themselves, but also the correct orientation of children, so that children understand the “Mo Shan Shaoyi not” truth. If a child takes the initiative to give a seat to an elderly person in his car, he must be promptly promoted to “respecting the young and loving the young” as a tribute to the traditional virtues of our Chinese nation. At the same time, for the minor mistakes of children, especially the principle of error, parents must not tolerate accommodation, indulgence,