言谈是一门艺术,它不像书信可以打草稿,反复修改,直到满意,说错了话是无法挽回的。会说话的人,在日常生活和人际交往中,往往左右逢源,如鱼得水;不会说话的人则是处处受限、举步为艰。从言谈的内容和形式方面来看,让人不快的言谈者往往具有以下特征。 Speech is an art. It is not like a letter can be drafted, repeated changes until it is satisfied that the wrong words are irreparable. Talking people, in their daily life and interpersonal contacts, tend to be both ways, as a duck; people who are not talking everywhere is limited, difficult for the move. From the point of view of the content and form, unpleasant speech tends to have the following characteristics.