[参考译文]当我们与陌生人擦肩而过时,多数人往往把目光移开。要是有人停下来帮妇女哄她的小孩和帮她把食品搬上楼梯,反而会被人看成另类。无论是排队还是乘地铁或公共汽车,我们很少让位于他人。坐在自己的汽车里,我们宁愿堵塞交通也不愿给人让路。这些日常接触,要是气冲冲的或是使人反感的,那便会减少我们生活的乐趣,要是它们令人愉 When we pass by a stranger, most people tend to look away. If someone stops to help women pick up her child and help her put the food on the stairs, it will be seen as an alternative. Whether it is queuing or taking the subway or bus, we rarely let people be located. Sitting in my car, we would rather block traffic than give way. These daily contacts, if they are overwhelming or offensive, will reduce the joy of our lives, if they are pleasing