小W,一个瘦弱、内向、胆怯的小姑娘。教她已经一个月了,却从未听过她说一句话,也未曾看到过她抬起头正视你。偶尔指名让她回答问题,却也只能换来她低着头默默站在那儿一言不发的无奈。好几次想冲着她发火,但每次看到她那胆战心惊的样子,终究于心不忍。一次家访让我了解了孩子的情况,原来孩子的母亲是个智障妇女,兴许是带有一点先天遗传的因素,抑或是特殊的家庭使孩子一直生活在诸多的嘲笑、歧视中,让这个孩子变得寡言自卑,失去了一个少年应有的“阳光”。“让孩子开口,让孩子抬起头,也许比向她传授 Small W, a thin, introverted, timid little girl. Teach her for a month, but never heard her say a word, have not seen her face up to face you. Occasionally let her answer the name, but only in exchange for her silent headless silent stood there. Several times trying to get angry at her, but every time I see her scared look, after all, can not bear to heart. A family visit let me know the child’s situation, the original child’s mother is a mentally retarded woman, perhaps with a little genetic heredity, or a special family so that children have been living in a lot of ridicule, discrimination, so that the child becomes Squatting low self-esteem, lost a juvenile should ”sunshine “. ”Let the child open, let the child looked up, perhaps than to teach her