儒家信奉中庸之道,中庸并非意志消沉和缺少斗志,其实是以退为进,是一种参透一切而大智若愚的至高境界。一、鹅卵石我家住在松花江边,去江边玩,看到许多鹅卵石。小时候常拣几块带回家。那次去一家会所,见用水泥拌鹅卵石铺的甬路,脚踏上去别有一番味道。对鹅卵石的感觉,是在忽然一天产生的。不知怎么,觉得它非常有个性,堪称外柔内刚的代表。我们可以想象,最初它以水为家的时候,一定是有棱有角的。是什么 Confucianism believes in the golden mean, but it is not the will of the midst of depression and the lack of fighting spirit. In fact, it is based on retreat and progress, and it is an all-encompassing wisdom. First, the pebbles I live in the Songhua River, go to the river to play, see a lot of pebbles. When I was young, I picked a few to take home. Go to a club that time, see the cement mixed with cobblestone Yong Road, do not have a taste of foot up. The feeling of pebbles is generated in a sudden day. I do not know how, I think it is very personal, called the soft outside just representative. We can imagine that when it was first made of water, it must be angular. What is it?