所谓嫉妒,就是一种积极的想排除别人超越的地位,或想破坏别人超越的状态,带有强烈憎恨色彩的情感。这种情感有时会显现于表面,有时深藏在人们的心中。在日常生活中,我们不仅会在于不知不觉中受到别人的嫉妒,而且自身也在不知不觉中产生了嫉妒心。任何一个人,只要他有改善现状的意欲及不愿输给别人的意识,那么他在整个人生里,嫉妒便会不断地产生。我们知道,嫉妒会给人带来好处,增强人们的竞争意识,促使人们进步向上,但嫉妒也 The so-called jealousy, is a positive want to rule out the status of others beyond, or want to undermine the status of others beyond, with a strong sense of hatred of color. This feeling sometimes appears on the surface, sometimes hidden in people’s minds. In everyday life, we not only feel jealous of others unwittingly, but ourselves also unknowingly produce jealousy. As long as he has the desire to improve the status quo and the sense of unwillingness to lose to others, he will continue to have jealousy throughout his life. We know that jealousy will bring benefits to people, enhance people’s sense of competition and promote people’s progress, but envy is also