教育心理学表明,学生容易受外界刺激,教师不当的批评,同学之间的矛盾、隔阂,家庭的冷漠、不和睦,社会不良风气的影响等,都会使学生存在较严重的消极情绪,影响他们身心的健康发展,妨碍学生学习活动的正常进行。因此,努力把握消极情绪的化解艺术,变消极为积极,化不利为有利,是教师的一项重要任务。教师对学生真诚的爱和尊重是启迪学生心扉的钥匙,只有让学生真正感受到班主任可亲、可敬、可信赖时,他们的心灵之窗才打 Educational psychology shows that students are vulnerable to external stimuli, teachers’ improper criticism, conflicts among students, estrangement, family indifference, discord, social unhealthy influences and so on, which will make students have more serious negative emotions and affect them The healthy development of body and mind hinders students’ normal learning activities. Therefore, it is an important task for teachers to work hard to grasp the art of dissolving negative emotions, to turn negative into positive ones and to turn negative ones into beneficial ones. Teachers sincere love and respect for students is the key to enlighten students heart, only to make students truly feel the teacher in-laws, respectable, trustworthy, their windows of mind to play