每当看见大人一手碗一手匙地追着喂他家的宝贝儿吃饭时,总勾起我一片苦涩的回忆。我也曾为儿子“进食难”伤透脑筋,有过太多的教训。儿子先天不足,个体弱小,胃口也小。我盲目相信“会吃会大”的说法,总是对照儿童食谱上的标准量,希望儿子多吃快长。为了多喂那么几口,我不惜时间,极有耐心地劝他,哄他,逗他,偶尔也板下脸来训他。我丈夫认为食谱上的标准量是平均数,具体运用到每个孩子身上,肯定有上下标准差。他多次批评我是“教条主义”,要我“顺其自然”,可我听不进去。我虽然理论上明明白白知道“荤素搭配”的饮食道理,但做起 Whenever I saw the bowl of handful of adults one hand spoon to chase feeding his family’s baby children always evoke a bitter memories. I also had a hard time thinking about my son’s “eating difficulties” and had too many lessons. Imperfect son, weak individual, appetite is small. I blindly believe that “eat will be big” argument, always control the standard amount of children’s recipes, I hope my son eat more fast. In order to feed more than that, I spare no time to persuade him patiently, coax him, tease him, occasionally face to face training him. My husband thinks that the standard amount on the recipes is the average, which is applied to every child. There must be a standard deviation up and down. He repeatedly criticized me as “dogmatic” and asked me to “let it be”, but I could not hear it. Although I understand the theory of “meat and vegetables with” diet truth, but start