苏州对上海影响最深刻的,我认为主要体现在两个方面,一个是评弹,教人如何待人接物、礼义廉耻,另一个是风味,教人如何鉴赏美食。石库门弄堂里朝夕相处的上海人难免磕磕绊绊,但有苏州人做近邻,那是一种福分。上海人有一句话:宁可跟苏州人吵架,不愿跟宁波人说话。而在生活品质方面,苏州人一直是上海人的榜样。比方说,前客堂的苏州好婆炒只咸菜肉丝,肉丝一定是切得长短、粗细一样,肥瘦搭配,刷刷齐, Suzhou has the most profound impact on Shanghai. I think it is mainly reflected in two aspects. One is the Pingtan bombing, the teaching of how to deal with human beings, the righteousness and honor, the other is the flavor, and the teaching of how to appreciate food. Shanghai Shikumen alley morning and evening get along inevitably stumbling, but there is a neighbor in Suzhou, it is a blessing. Shanghai people have a saying: rather quarrel with Suzhou, do not want to speak with the Ningbo people. In terms of quality of life, Suzhou has always been an example for Shanghai. For example, before the guest house Suzhou good lady fried pickles only pork, pork must be cut length, the same thickness, fat and thin, brush Qi,