“老师,我是鼓了好大的勇气才走进来的。”男生走进咨询室后主动开了口。虽然他自己说鼓足勇气才进来,但一般说来,这样的来询者个人开放程度比较高,所以才会直接把自己的真实感受讲出来了;他们往往较善于倾诉,也较容易接受他人的建议。我用鼓励的眼光继续看着他,他开始叙说了: “Teacher, I got a big courage to come in. ” The boy entered the consultation room and took the initiative to open. Although he himself said that he had enough courage to come in, in general, such interlocutors would be more open to the public and therefore would directly tell their true feelings; they were often better at talking and were more receptive to others Suggestions. I continued to look at him with encouragement, he began to narrate: