奖状很多家长都喜欢有意无意地拿孩子去炫耀,比如:我的孩子钢琴考了多少级,我的孩子会背多少首唐诗,我的孩子考了全校第一……当然,这不是现在才有的,从很久以前这种现象就存在了,“光宗耀祖”、“荣归故里”等词语都反应出了这一问题。盲目赞扬隐忧重重从孩子成长的角度来看,表扬、赏识是很有必要的,一个经常被表扬、被赏识的孩子容易树立自信,可以更好感知自己内心的力量, Commendation Many parents love to show off their children intentionally or unintentionally, such as: how many children’s piano test my child, my child how many Tang poetry back, my child took the first test of the school ... Of course, this is not now only This phenomenon has existed since a long time ago, and the words such as “light ancestor”, “honor to hometown” all reflect this problem. Blindly praise the hidden worries from the child’s growth point of view, praise, appreciation is necessary, a often praised, being appreciated children easy to establish self-confidence, you can better perceive their inner strength,