《背影》自问世以来,颇受关注,被誉为传统父亲正面形象的标杆。作者朱自清以“背影”为独特视角对文章进行切入,感人至深。关于其的评论不胜枚举,主流是从深沉父爱的角度进行文本探究。对此,笔者却认为《背影》是书写一个成年儿子经过内心矛盾挣扎“懂得爱”的过程。本文将从“我”在望父亲爬月台买橘子整个过程内心的矛盾点和父亲离开车站这个场景“我”的复杂情绪这两方面进行分析讨论。 Since its publication, “Back Shadow” has drawn much attention and is praised as the benchmark of the positive image of traditional father. The author Zhu Ziqing “” back “ There are many comments on it, the mainstream is to explore the text from the perspective of deep fathers. In this regard, I think that ”back“ is the process of writing an adult son struggling through the inner contradictions ”know love “. This article will analyze and discuss the contradiction between the heart of the whole process of ”I“ looking at his father climbing the platform to buy oranges and the complex emotions that his father left the station ”I".