编辑老师: 你好! 为了鼓励孩子兴趣的发展,我们经常对孩子采取奖赏的办法,如当孩子考试得了高分,或者弹钢琴有了进步,便相应给些奖赏作为鼓励,可结果却往往不令人满意,甚至恰好相反。我们很困惑,为什么奖赏不灵了呢? 河南东东爸 Edit teacher: Hello! In order to encourage the development of children’s interests, we often reward children, such as when the children have scored high marks, or the piano has made progress, they will give some reward as encouragement, but the result is often not Satisfactory, or even the opposite. We are confused, why the reward is not good? Dongdong father