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近几年来,“心理咨询”一词已逐渐为公众所熟悉,但人们对心理咨询的认识存在许多误区,影响咨询的效果。误区一:立竿见影许多人认为心理咨询可以“短、平、快”地解决自己的问题,对咨询过程和效果缺乏耐心,经常中途退出咨询。某高校一位女大学生来咨询时就有这种心态。她的苦恼是不适应大学生活。一方面是生活上不能和同寝室的同学融洽相处,另一方面是学习上压力大,不再像以前那样遥遥领先。最后她说:“我来咨询就是希望你尽快解决我的问题,否则我这几年怎么过呀!”我向她指出,她的问题是
In recent years, the term “psychological counseling” has gradually become familiar to the public. However, there are many misunderstandings about the psychological counseling and the effect of counseling. Misunderstanding one: immediate effect Many people think that psychological counseling can be “short, flat, fast” to solve their own problems, the consultation process and the effect of lack of patience, often quit midway counseling. A college female college counselor to have this mentality. Her distress is not suited to university life. On the one hand, they can not live in harmony with their classmates in the same dormitory. On the other hand, they are stressed in their studies and are no longer as advanced as they used to be. Finally, she said: “I came to consult with the hope that you will solve my problem as soon as possible, or how would I have been in the past few years!” I pointed out to her that her problem was