现在许多父母和教师都抱怨说,如今的半大孩子越来越让人头疼了。而许多少男少女常凑在一起对父母和教师愤愤不平,尤其是对他们经常采用的“监视”、“搜查”,“盘问”……。青春期的到来、自我意识的觉醒使少男少女们萌发了强烈的“自立”的愿望,然而许多父母和教师还尚未理解这一切,对他们还依然采用儿童时代的那一套如保护、监督、控制等等。这样一来,要求“自立”的少男少女们就难免要与不理解他们的成人之间发生摩擦,做出“反抗”。 Many parents and teachers now complain that the half-grown children today are getting a headache. However, many boys and girls often get together and indignant at their parents and teachers, especially the “surveillance”, “search” and “cross-examination” which they often adopt. The advent of adolescence and the awakening of self-awareness have led to a strong “self-reliance” desire for boys and girls. However, many parents and teachers still do not understand all this, and they still use the childhood era of protection, supervision and control and many more. In this way, young boys and girls who request “self-reliance” will inevitably have to make friction with adults who do not understand them and “resist.”