我国自古就有“厌讼、贱讼”思想,人人唯恐诉讼缠身而避之,从而私下解决纠纷、化解矛盾来促进乡邻之间的和谐。可见“私了”作为非诉讼纠纷解决机制在我国存在有其必要性。通过借鉴国外的“ADR”进一步完善我国的非诉讼纠纷解决机制。 Since ancient times, our country has the idea of ​​“dislike litigation and low lawsuit”, and everyone is afraid of litigation so as to evade disputes and solve contradictions privately so as to promote harmony among neighbors. Visible “private ” as a non-litigation dispute resolution mechanism exists in our country has its necessity. Further Improve Our Non-litigation Dispute Resolution Mechanism by Learning from Foreign Countries.