与同事相处,太远了当然不好,人家会认为你不合群、孤僻、不宜交往;太近了也不好,容易让别人说闲话,而且也容易令上司误解,认定你是在搞小圈子。所以说,不即不离,不远不近的同事关系,才是最难得和最理想的关系。与同事相处,会有两种情况,一是你们出于同一条水平线上;二是你们的职位不对等,成为上下级的情况。在处在同一条水平线上,处理同事关系往往并不是很困难的事情。 Get along with colleagues, too far, of course not good, people will think you are not gregarious, withdrawn, should not be socialized; too near is not good, easy to let others gossip, but also easy to make the boss misunderstood, that you are engaged in a small circle. So, not unrelated, not far from the relationship between colleagues, is the most rare and ideal relationship. There are two kinds of situations you can get along with your colleagues. One is that you are on the same horizontal line. The other is that your positions are not equal and have become upper and lower levels. At the same level, dealing with co-workers is often not a difficult task.