女儿喜欢自编自唱,通常围绕一个主题,将各种语言混在一起吟唱。有一天,她唱了一首只有一个词的歌,独自一人深情婉转地将这个词反复咏叹。我忍不住偷偷录下一段,保存至今。这个词就是“Entschuldigung”(德语:对不起)。也许是唱者无心,听者有意,想到成人世界的种种傲慢无礼,我感慨良多。几乎从女儿出生后开始,我就坚持凡事给她讲道理,所以她很早就懂得分辨是非对错。我意识到道歉的意义,则是在她上幼儿园以后。刚去幼儿园,女儿难免被人欺负。对方家长知道后,都会主动道歉——不仅是家长之间,而且家长对孩子,更要让孩子面对面,诚恳地说对不起,还送小礼物作为补偿,并邀请到家里玩耍,成为朋友。 Daughters like to sing and sing, usually around a theme, a variety of languages ​​mixed singing. One day, she sang a song with only one word, alone and affectionately gently chant the word repeatedly. I could not help but secretly recorded a period, save so far. The word is “Entschuldigung” (German: sorry). Perhaps the singer inadvertently, the listener is interested, think of the arrogant and rude adults in the world, I feel a lot of emotion. Almost from the moment she was born, I insisted that everything should be given to her, so she knew very early to tell right from wrong. I realized the significance of apology, it is after her kindergarten. Just went to kindergarten, her daughter will inevitably be bullied. The parents know each other, will take the initiative to apologize - not only between parents, but also for parents, but also to let children face to face, I sincerely sorry, but also send a small gift as compensation, and invited to play at home and become friends.