做人不仅要自信、自强、自尊,还要学会自我安慰。在痛苦和遇到挫折时,就要进行自我安慰,就能使心境豁然开朗。别人安慰,无论怎么说都不如自我安慰好。别人安慰,自己都要有一个心理接受过程,而自我安慰的过程就是自己接受现实的过程,相比之下,自我安慰见效就快得多。因此,无论是 Not only to be confident, self-improvement, self-esteem, but also learn to comfort myself. In the pain and encounter setbacks, we must self-comfort, we can make the mood suddenly. Comfortable others, no matter how to say better than self-comfort. Others comfort, they all have a psychological acceptance process, and the process of self-comfort is to accept the reality of their own process, by contrast, much faster self-comfort effect. So no matter