[参考译文]送女儿出嫁给陌生男人既是最令人喜欢也是让人激怒的事情。我的故事既简单又是这个时代的真实写照。出席婚礼的有三对父母:我与我的第二个妻子,我前妻与她的配偶;还有新郎的父母,他们实际上已结婚都24年了。当人们问我与我的妻子结婚多少年时,我总是说23年,实际上只有10年。为什么呢?很简单,我是将我的婚姻两次生活加在一起算了,取个理想数,那个数字我将能记住。我与我的第一个妻子结婚13年,与第二个妻子10年,因此,在相当长 It is both irritating and exciting to send a daughter to a strange man. My story is both simple and a true reflection of this era. Three pairs of parents attended the wedding: I and my second wife, my ex-wife and her spouse; and the groom’s parents, they are actually married for 24 years. When people ask me how many years I have married my wife, I always say 23 years and actually only 10 years. Why? It is very simple. I have added two times to my marriage. Take an ideal number. I will remember that number. I married my first wife for 13 years, with my second wife for 10 years, so it was quite long