一些人常常觉得活得苦、活得累,其实很大的原因是他们自己常常用放大镜看苦恼,顾影自怜,最终难以自拔。有这样一个故事:有个主妇,不小心打破了一个鸡蛋,这本是一件很平常的小事,可主妇想,鸡蛋能孵成小鸡,小鸡能长成母鸡,而母鸡又能下很多蛋,很多蛋又能孵成很多鸡……主妇如此想下去,仿佛自己失去了一个养鸡场,越想越痛苦。 Some people often find it hard to live and live tired, in fact, a big reason is that they often use the magnifying glass to look distressed, Gu Ying self-pity, and ultimately difficult to extricate themselves. There is such a story: there is a housewife, accidentally broke an egg, this is a very common trifle, the housewife thought, eggs can be hatched chickens, chicks can grow into hens, hens can Under a lot of eggs, many eggs can hatch a lot of chickens ... Housewife so want to go on, as if they have lost a chicken farm, the more the more painful.