西奥多·罗斯福有句名言:“普通人成功并非靠天赋,而是靠把寻常的天资发挥到不同寻常的高度。”可以这样归纳普通人成功的经验: 一、学会自我约束。一位使数家“疲软”的医院生机再现,因而美誉遐迩的医院院长对我说:“成功哪是靠什么天才,有一瓶胶水就够了,在你裤子上抹一把,再往你椅子上抹一把,然后就坐下吧,不干得如花似锦你就别起来。”这话正道出了普通人成功的诀窍:养成自律习惯,执著于目标,把“摘桃子”的时间推迟,最终却能得到最大最甜的蜜桃。而许多“天才”的弊病却在于期望过高过急,指望唾手可得仙桃,一旦受挫便怨天尤人,意冷心灰,反倒连青桃也没弄到。50年前,一组研究者对几百名大学男生做追踪调查,了解他们 Theodore Roosevelt famously said: “Ordinary people succeed not by talent, but by the extraordinary talent to play to an extraordinary height.” Can be summarized as ordinary people’s successful experience: First, learn to self-restraint. One of the few “weak” hospitals was alive, so the hospital’s dean of good reputation said to me: “What a success depends on genius, a bottle of glue is enough, wipe your pants and go to you Put a chair, and then sit down, do not do it if you are blossoming. ”This is a fair way to tell the ordinary people the trick: to develop self-discipline habits, persistent in the goal, the“ pick peach ”time Postponed, but eventually get the biggest and sweetest peach. But many “genius” ills lie in expectation of over-urgency and hope of getting it out of hand. Once frustrated, people will complain of discontent, but they will not be able to get the green peach. Fifty years ago, a group of researchers tracked hundreds of college boys and learned about them