可以说,有时候孩子的未来决定于父母的一句话。可见父母的有些话,在孩子心目中有着举足轻重的地位。有时往往是不留心的一句话,会在子女成长的过程中起很大的作用,有的甚至终身受用。某女作家在她成名后写的一篇文章中谈到,她在少女时代不曾做过作家梦,也很少看小说。但在她二十五岁时候发生了婚变、离婚后她不得不依靠自身的努力生活,也为了丰富 It can be said that sometimes the child’s future depends on the parents of a word. Visible some words of parents, children’s minds have a pivotal position. Sometimes it is often careless to say a word, will play a big role in the process of children’s growth, and some even life-long use. In an article she wrote after her fame, a woman writer said that she never had a writer’s dream in her teenage days and seldom read a novel. However, when she was 25, she had a marriage change. After the divorce, she had to rely on her own efforts to live, but also to enrich