儿童道德发展,离不开父母的熏陶和影响,而这方面却往往被父母所忽视。正如心理学家杰拉尔德·帕特森所说:“父母常常意识不到自己正在向子女传授些什么。” 研究表明,父母脾气暴躁,即使是常见的因烦恼而疾言厉色的态度,对子女的学习和智力发展也十分有害。一些研究指出,过分地强调服从,会压抑儿童的好奇心;而经常采取强制手段则会销蚀儿童的仁爱之心。 The development of children’s morality can not be separated from the influence and influence of parents, but this area is often neglected by parents. As psychologist Gerald Patterson put it: “Parents often fail to recognize what they are teaching to their children.” Studies show that parents are temper-prone, even when they are often agitated, Learning and intellectual development are also very harmful. Some studies have pointed out that over-emphasizing obedience can depress children’s curiosity; and often taking coercive measures can erode children’s benevolence.