女儿,看到你的信,我第一个感觉是:女儿长大了,随之而来的是欣慰、幸福,还有许许多多说不出的感觉。女儿,你还在妈妈肚子里的时候,我就和你的爸爸商量并达成一致意见:绝不能让未来的孩子染上如今独生子女娇生惯养的通病,一定要培养一个独立的孩子。无论是男孩还是女孩,这都是我们认为最重要的品质。然而,说来容易做来难。尊重孩子,信任孩子,这话谁都会说,谁都明白,但孩子是母亲的 My daughter, I saw your letter, my first feeling is: daughter grew up, followed by the good news, happiness, there are a lot of unspeakable feeling. Daughter, while you are still in your mother’s stomach, I will discuss with your dad and agree: the future children must not be infected with the common problems of only one child being pampered today, be sure to cultivate an independent child. Whether boys or girls, this is what we think is the most important quality. However, it is easier said than done. Respect children, trust children, who would say these words, no one knows, but the children are mothers