在多年的幼儿园教学工作中我发现,由于现在的幼儿大多都是独生子女,他们是父母的掌上明珠,在家中过着饭来张口,衣来伸手的生活,对于生活中的许多事都是父母或者是爷爷奶奶来包办,致使许多幼儿的生活自理能力很差。他们有较强的依赖性,不能够独立的完成一件事情,这样就不利于幼儿的健康成长,也不利于培养学生独立的意识和能力。所以,不管是在日常的教学活动中还是在学生的生活中,作为老师和家长的我们要放开 During many years of kindergarten teaching, I found that since most of today’s young children are only children, they are parents’ pearl, have a meal at home to open their mouths, clothing to reach out to life, for many things in life are parents or Is grandparents to arrange, resulting in many children’s self-care ability is very poor. They have strong dependence and can not accomplish one thing independently. In this way, they are not conducive to the healthy growth of young children, nor are they conducive to cultivating students’ independent awareness and ability. So, whether in everyday teaching activities or in student life, we as teachers and parents should let go