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作为异性父母,该如何与孩子谈性?在孩子的成长过程中,妈妈有很多机会向他自然地解释有关性的基本知识。亲近的妈妈抓住这些机会和儿子谈性,会是让儿子受益一生的良好的性教育。年幼的孩子玩耍时,有物体触碰到他的生殖器,他说:哦,这感觉真棒。这实际上就是一个机会,你可以对他说:“我们的身体是很绝妙的,触碰身体的某些部位会让我们感觉很舒服,不是吗?”如果这时你僵在一旁或制止儿子发问,就会使孩子认为,性是下流的事,他必须私下探索自己的性欲望。
As a heterosexual parents, how to talk to their children? In the process of child development, mothers have many opportunities to explain to him the nature of the basic knowledge. Close mother to seize these opportunities to talk with his son, will be his son will benefit from a good sex education. When a young child is playing, something touches his genitals and he says: Oh, it feels awesome. This is actually a chance, you can say to him: “Our body is wonderful, touching some parts of the body will make us feel comfortable, is not it?” If you are stiff or Stopping a son’s questioning will make the child think that sex is an obscene thing, and he must privately explore his sexual desires.