不久前,一位女同事这样谈论她上小学三年级的儿子:一天晚上,儿子写作业时,她出于关心,凑过去看看,不想儿子脱口甩出这么一句:“你懂吗?做你的饭去吧!”尽管这位母亲心怀爱昵之情说出这句话,并在讲述时不无得意地进行了某种程度的渲染,但这毕竟是儿子对母亲的喝斥,令人瞠目。三年级的小学生固然年幼无知, Not long ago, a female colleague talked about her son who was in third grade in elementary school. One night when her son wrote a homework, she went out of her care and went to see her. She did not want her son to blurt out the following sentence: “Do you understand? Go! ”Although the mother said it with love and affection, she did not hesitate to explain it to some extent, but after all it was a son’s reproach to her mother, stare. Although the third grade pupils are young and ignorant,