有这样一个著名的例子,几名专家拿着一本班级同学的花名册,指出其中的一些名字,说那些孩子都是神童。果不其然,经过一段时间的观察,大家越看这些孩子的表现越像神童。这些孩子不久后也都获得了成功。大家不禁佩服那些专家的眼力。专家却笑答那些名字不过是他随便点的。同样,想使一个孩子变坏也很简单。只要他的父母、老师、同学天天都对他喊:“你真讨厌,又笨又懒,什么也不会,只会干坏事惹人生气……”那么,这个孩子很快就会成为大家描述中的那位“坏孩子”了。所以,作为一名教育工作者,作为学校教育的实施者,在如何正确引导学生上,切记要帮助学生树立良好的自我 There is such a famous example that several experts hold the roster of a classmate and point out some of the names, saying that the children are prodigies. Sure, after a period of observation, the more you look at these children's performance more like prodigy. These children soon succeeded. We can not help but admire the eyesight of those experts. Experts laugh but those names are just his casual point. Likewise, it is easy to make a child worse. As long as his parents, teachers and classmates shout at him every day: “You really hate, stupid and lazy, nothing, just annoying bad things ... ... then, the child will soon become you describe In the ”bad boy". Therefore, as an educator, as an implementer of school education, on how to guide students correctly, remember to help students to establish a good self