“不看房子不贪钱，相亲首挑党团员，违法乱纪靠边站，家事不和暂不恋”。这是江西省定南县农村女青年，近年来婚姻观念变化的真实写照。去年10月至今，全县共有316名农家姑娘挑选青年党团员定下了终身。过去，该县部分农村女青年由于受陈旧观念的影响，在选择对象时看重房子和 “Do not look at the house is not greedy money, blind date the first party members, breaking the law by standing aside, not temporary and not love housework.” This is a rural women’s youth in Dingnan County, Jiangxi Province, a true portrayal of changes in the concept of marriage in recent years. Since last October, a total of 316 peasant girls have been selected by Youth League members of the county to set a lifelong goal. In the past, due to the influence of old ideas, some rural young women in this county value the house when choosing