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如果将儒家“不偏不倚,调和折中,知足知不足,有为有不为”的主张,运用到居家过日子中,就能卸下心灵的重负,轻松持家,过从容恬然的日子。中庸之一:不要强求老公出人头地,但也不能让他碌碌无为、无所事事。老公出人头地固然不错,但是当今世界对成功男人的诱惑太多,稍一闪失,就会带来许多麻烦。既不为老公仕途不畅、“钱”途不旺而烦恼,又不能让老公当缠树的“青藤”。让老公忙得充实,忙出自尊,使家境殷实,吃用无忧,过普通人的日子,享普通人的清福。
If Confucianism, “impartiality, compromise, compromise, contentment and lack of awareness,” the use of home to live, we can unload the heavy burden of the soul, easy to hold a house, had a relaxed and happy life. One of the mean: Do not force her husband out of her head, but can not let him mediocre, doing nothing. Husband head to head is good, but the temptation of successful men in the world too much, a little lost, it will bring a lot of trouble. Neither for her husband poor career, “money ” not on the road and worry, they can not let her husband when the tree wrapped “ivy ”. Husband busy enrichment, busy self-esteem, so family well, eat worry-free, over ordinary people’s day, enjoy ordinary people’s blessing.