朱德熙先生为《杂记赵家》作序,曾说过这样一番话:“英美人说to enioy life,中国人说‘过日子’。两种说法代表两种不同的生活态度。to e-njoy life是积极的,‘过日子’则带着消极的味道,似乎包含要想方设法把一生难熬的日子打发掉的意思,就像戏词里王宝钏说的‘苦度光阴’一样。” 这是指旧中国大多数人的生活,少数“有钱人家”不愁吃穿,生活自然可以作更高一步的要求。孔子说,“食不厌精,脍不厌细”(粮食不厌春得 Mr. Zhu Dexi preface to “Miscellany Zhao”, once said: “British and Americans say to enioy life, Chinese say ’live’ .Two kinds of views represent two different attitudes to life .to e-njoy life is positive, while living has a negative flavor, and it seems that it contains the idea of ​​trying to get rid of the hard life of the whole life, just like the ’bitterness of time’ spoken by Wang Baoyu in the play. ”This refers to the old China Most people’s lives, a few “rich people” worry about eating and drinking, life can naturally be taken as a higher step requirements. Confucius said, “Food is not too refined, not too subtle” (food never tired of Spring