如果一个园丁擅长种花木，我们就说他通园林艺术。同样，如果一对夫妇善于培养爱情之花，使婚姻这个园林繁荣兴盛，我们就说这对夫妇有婚姻的“园林艺术”。这种比喻并不牵强，因为，婚姻关系同所有事物一样，面临着大自然给予的挑战：或生长而繁荣，或凋敝而死亡。 幸好，这种 If a gardener is good at planting flowers and trees, we say he communicates through garden art. Similarly, if a couple is good at cultivating the flower of love and making the garden prosper, we will say that the couple have the “garden art” of marriage. This metaphor is not far-fetched because marriage, like all things, poses challenges posed by nature: to grow and prosper, or to die. Fortunately, this