中国人离不开饭局,饭局上离不开“小道消息”。吃的是山珍海味,品的却是家长里短。一个人的讲话,若总是不离他人的隐私,且所说的内容总能让你时时有惊讶,离他远点,否则,下一个被出卖的,就是你。不要一头扎进是非堆,不要扎堆讲是非。虽然你也许觉得“讲是非”是最容易让对方敞开嘴巴的途径,但是非讲得太多,心就会变得 Chinese people can not do without the dinner, dinner can not do without “gossip ”. Eat delicacies seafood, but the product is short parents. A person’s speech, if always not from the privacy of others, and the content always make you always surprised, away from him, otherwise, the next betrayal is you. Do not plunge into non-heap, do not get together right and wrong. Although you may think “nonsense ” is the easiest way to open your mouth to each other, but not speaking too much, the heart will become