卡耐基在《挖掘人性的优点,走出忧虑人生》这本书中提到了一个石油商人的故事:在一家石油公司中,有些运货员偷偷地扣下给顾客的油而卖给了他人,但石油商人却毫不知情。有一天,一位自称是政府稽查员的先生找到石油商人,告诉石油商人他掌握了该公司员工贩卖不法石 Carnegie mentions the story of an oil trader in his book The Merit of Humanity: Out of Concern for Human Life: In an oil company, some shippers secretly deduct the oil from the customer and sell it to others, but the oil The businessman did not know it. One day, a man who claimed to be the government inspector found a petroleum trader and told the oil trader that he had mastered the sale of illicit stone by the company’s employees