朋友间互相帮助、互相关心是很正常的事,可是,当这个关心和帮助过度,不仅会让人讨厌还会让自己活在痛苦之中。因此,关心朋友得有个度。案例:太关心朋友弄巧成拙芳芳是职业女性,在公司里和同事的关系虽然不错,可烦恼的事却天天有。因为芳芳的共情心理很严重,她总是把别人的痛苦当作自己的痛苦。认为自己对别人好是分内的事,而把别人对自己好看成是恩惠。和朋友在一起时,朋友不开心或碰到烦 It is normal for friends to help one another and to care for each other. However, when this care and help is excessive, it will not only annoy people but also make them feel painful. Therefore, a degree of concern for friends. Case: too concerned about friends self-defeating into Zhuozhuang Fangfang is a professional woman, and colleagues in the company although the relationship is good, troublesome but every day. Because of Fang’s empathy is very serious, she always treat others’ pain as their own pain. It is good to think that you are good to others, and others are good to yourself. When I am with a friend, my friend is unhappy or bored