人生在世,总难免有许多憾事。清人陆文皋总结了历史上的五大憾事:项羽未能杀刘邦于鸿门宴,此一憾;李广战功累累不能封侯,此二憾;嵇康的“广陵散”未能成为绝唱,此三憾;陆放翁没有看到“王师北定中原日”此四憾;梁山伯、祝英台生生不能成婚,此五憾。其实,人生远远不止这五憾。每一个人在生活的道路上都会遇到憾事。名人有撼,常人也有憾。难怪人们有“人生不如意事常八九”之论。力不从心,财不随意,好高骛远,志大才疏,心想事不成,好梦难以成真,其实并不算什么憾事。譬如杨国忠想“摄天下绝色而淫之”,石崇想“攫天下之财而聚之”,此乃痴心妄想,事难遂心那是理所当然,那谈得上什么遗憾。生活中真正令人遗憾的,大体有这么几种情况:没有抓住该自己得到的机遇,与其失之交臂;离成功只有一步之遥而别人抢先一步拿到奖杯;因一念之差而致一路顺风行船逆转;一时自律不严失足成千古之恨;很容易的一件事、一道题,因麻痹大意,办砸、做错;相爱多年的有情人未成 Life is alive and there are always many regrets. Qingwen Lu Wenqing summed up the five regrets in history: Xiang Yu failed to kill Liu Bang Yu Hongmen feast, this one regret; Li Guang can not afford to marry Hou Hou Hou, this two regret; Ji Kang’s “Guangling San” failed to become a swan song, these three regret Lu Fang Weng did not see the four regrets that “Wang Shibei set the Central Plains Day.” Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai could not marry each other. In fact, life is far more than these five regrets. Everyone will have regrets on the road to life. There are celebrities, ordinary people are sorry. It is no wonder that people have the theory that “life is not as good as something often”. If you don’t care about your money, you don’t care about your money, you don’t care about your money, you’re really good, you know, you don’t think it’s a good thing, and it’s hard to come true, but it’s not a pity. For example, Yang Guozhong wanted to “take pictures of the world and become obscene” and Shi Chong wanted to “combine the wealth of the world”. This is a wishful thinking. It is only natural that it is difficult to take care of it. Then there is nothing to regret. There are several situations in life that are truly regrettable. They have not seized the opportunities they have gained and lost their chance. They are only one step away from success and others have rushed to the trophy first step. Because of the difference in one opinion, the boat has gone downwind; At one time, self-discipline is not strict enough to fall into the hate of the ages; it is very easy for one thing, one question, because of arrogance, wrongdoing, wrongdoing; lovers who have been in love for many years have not become