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据我长期观察,让孩子自己解决一些“难题”是培养意志、发展智慧的一种好方法。——作者有一位儿童心理学专家说过,孩子从生活的第三个年头开始,时常表现出强烈的独立行动的愿望,而不愿接受成人的帮助,这是儿童行动发展的标志。儿子1岁半了。有一次,我给他两个玩具,他会拿比较新鲜的一个。如果把这个玩具放在稍远一些的地方,他会努力去够。这会不会就是意志的萌芽表现?如果我把玩具当着他的面藏起来,他还会去寻找。这可能就是智慧的表现。据我长期观察,让孩子自己解决一些“难题”,是培养
According to my long-term observation, letting children solve some “problems” by themselves is a good way to cultivate willpower and develop wisdom. - A child psychologist has said that children often show a strong desire for independent action from their third year of life, rather than being assisted by adults, as a sign of their actions. 1 year and a half son. Once, I gave him two toys, he will take a more fresh one. If the toy is placed a little further, he will work hard enough. Will this be the sprouting of will? If I hide the toy in his face, he will look for it. This may be the manifestation of wisdom. According to my long-term observation, let the children themselves solve some “problems” is to train